Humans have endless journey with problems and finding the solutions to them. Some part for arrival of problems come from the feeling of being stuck somewhere. We have often heard the aphorism “the fear of unknown”…which is not always true I guess. Its about the curiosity we have, to know things and we then try to choose between things, people…just keep thinking…’what if’. And we are living beings, we always get a lesson…learning from our past incidents. We live in present but with a part of our past alive with us. We then sometimes fear to make decisions based on the experiences we had. Like for example, the ones in stock trading fear to risk when its actually the time and leave the sector forever or else just hop without even having enough thought or researched about it which results in real loss and then will never go for trading. Or consider this case which almost every young adult faces…trust issues, commitment problem or just falling out of the love feeling thing. I just want to say.., experience is powerful thing, which has it’s own advantages and disadvantages. Well of course it is worth in every case to have one, that’s why it is either good or bad.
But it is important to make new experiences ….it helps the consistent growth factor in us. We must let our self to have them. I know, there are times when we are stressed and confused, but there is no biggest thing than to have the right to decide for our self. And we have it. So, now is the time to act, when you are screwed with your emotional or technical dilemma, take a break and then go for it. We must learn to give chances and as they say change begins from yourself first, so as this too…if we are not able to forgive or give chance to our self then how can we be able to give it to others and our loved ones! I mean it’d be better to do it and be wrong than just end up regretting for not doing it, right. Because these small decisions impact our lives as it did already in past and I believe it just adds up in our courage to decide for the next time whatever we’d want to do. We are so complex… its not that easy to be simple sometimes but why not just see what happens keeping our complexity aside.
This is the something called ‘the state of being’ and it is a process, we all go through it or can say we are always in this process. It is inevitable like pain. Learning and this state of being are co-dependent, technically speaking are proportional. And trust me, it also does not mean that you do the same mistakes again and again. You’ll see a pattern if you think over it and with a few analysis in your mind you automatically tend to grow.
Thanks for reading 😉