The Real Culprit

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People are lovely, confusing and good. But few are the rare species I can say or mostly commonly found today, these are the kinds which are really, really good at persuasion. They are the ones close enough to you that you feel like you can share things with, dominance is their default nature. You can feel that too, still you don’t act against it. You know what this is called in Psychological term, It’s a narcissistic behavior or trait. If you don’t understand, you will end up questioning everything about yourself or you do because of such people with this type of behavior. I must say this, ‘Dominance is okay only until you have good intentions for someone or something, and when if it is just for the sake of your benefit it becomes selfishness.’

Such people, are the real culprit. They will say things, do things first and pretend to be good all the time. They want everything to work as they want it to be. Their most dangerous tool is that they will make you feel that you are the one, who is wrong, and haha the next step, you are drowning in guilt. See, whatever I am writing here, is through very fine observation of situations experienced by people, I see that and It feels so bad that I can’t even explain this. But I am trying to put it into simpler, understandable words. And this I have to write, or say, because such people exist, and you might even know few, or might’ve understood this at some point of time in your life, but you did not take stand for yourself and ended up feeling guilty or upset over things, and you must not take crap from such people, because your inner voice is constantly saying you this, that you are not that person, whatever the shit they are trying to make you feel you are or you have done something.

Know who you are at the core, and speak up for yourself. You have to do this, no one else is going to do it for you. This is very basic, but you have to remind yourself this over time, maybe, again and again. We are trying to build a better society, it is not possible unless such people keep their fakeness and pretentiousness aside and get to their better self. So if you come across such incidents, you please speak up and make them realize what they are doing.

Thanks for reading.